When we always use our vibrator to get us off, it can make having an orgasm without it a bit tricky. And that's why it's fantastic to mix things up a bit and create other pathways to pleasure.

It's a myth that vibrators desensitise our bodies or make having an orgasm without them impossible. It is true though, that our brains can start relying on them as the quickest and easiest roads to pleasure. So ditch your trusty vibe every now and then and find some other avenues to ecstasy.

1. Try a non-vibrating dildo or wand

You might think that switching from your fave, top of the line vibe to a cold, inert shaft is not very appealing but hold that thought. Slow down and really feel the toy inside you. Watch yourself masturbate with it. The NJoy Pure Wand isn't iconic for nothing.

2. Get some nipple clamps with a chain

Make sure you attach them behind the nipple and not on the nipple so that you're blocking off the blood supply. Use your fingers to masturbate and hold the chain between your teeth so you can pull and release. When you climax, release the clamps so blood floods back to the nipple. Sweet!

3. Get some butt action

Use a butt plug instead of a vibrator and masturbate with it inside you. Or do as one of my trusty mates did the other day and ride your bike over cobblestones with it inside you. Florence here we cum!

4. Supercharge your fantasies

Put in some time and effort to really up your fantasy game. Is it group sex that arouses you? Outdoor sex? BSDM? Use your imagination and enrich the setting, so that every body, every voice, every detail is exactly the way you want it. You might even be able to climax without touching yourself!

5. Try a suction toy

You've heard how air fryers have revolutionised cooking right? They don't use oil they use AIR! Suction toys use air not VIBRATION!! MIND BLOWN!!

6. Put some arousal oil on your clit or penis

On For Her and On For Him are arousal gels that change the orgasm game. They bring the blood to the surface, warm up the area, help the vagina to naturally lubricate and create a pulse like sensation. Add a drop to the clit, or rub some on the penis while masturbating.

7. Silicone Lube is your best friend

Slather it on your hands and head downtown. The slipperiness is next level.

8. Sensitise

Put your earbuds in and crank up some smooth tunes. Blindfold yourself and keep your legs apart with a spreader bar. In. The. Zone.

9. Read it. Watch it. Listen to it. Learn.

There are more ways than ever to enjoy erotica and porn. You can read a novel, find some (preferably) ethical porn or listen via audible or dipseastories.com. OMGYES is another great online tool that helps you learn about pleasure. Infuse your soul with sexy stories so that you're in a state of heightened arousal.

10. Find other erogenous zones

You might think your clitoris or penis are your only erogenous zones but you can explore other areas such as your G-spot, prostate, cervix, nipples, anus or urethra. There are a myriad of toys to stimulate your body and of course, there is your mind - the biggest erogenous zone of them all.

Feel free to let us know how you get off without your trusty vibe.

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